A little bit of ... All That Is
“Just because someone desires you, does not mean that they value you.
Read it over.
Let those words resonate in your mind.”
“Remember this: someone who truly loves you will do so unconditionally. A person who loves you conditionally doesn’t really love you; they love who they think you should be and they ask you- or try to force you- to deny certain portions of yourself in order to meet their conditions. This is against your nature as an infinite being. It is your true nature to be unconditionally loving and loved. It is your true nature to be free and to choose to be whoever you prefer to be. So a person who truly loves you will always seek to recognize your freedom. They will not ask anything of you that you do not choose to give. They will honor and cherish the true you, always.”
“True happiness starts with unconditional self-validation. Without unconditional self-validation you will always strive to meet the conditions you think you need to meet in order to become valid and worthy. Your life will become a never-ending miserable search for validation, because you will find that the external conditions of validation always change. This isn’t because there are actually some ever-changing conditions that you must meet, but rather because there are no conditions at all. You are unconditionally worthy- all it takes for you to realize this is for you to simply admit it.”